Where have all the Real Leaders Gone

Posted in Uncategorized, Coaching, Success, Leadership by Manny on February 1st, 2010

<meta content="OpenOffice.org 3.1 (Win32)" name="GENERATOR" /><style type="text/css"> <!-- @page { margin: 0.79in } P { margin-bottom: 0.08in } --> </style></p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Interesting fact about leadership.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">The higher you go in an organization</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">the quicker you will have to make decisions</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">the less information you will have to make that decision</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">and the greater the impact of that decision will be?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Did you know that according to a Gallup Organization Study,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">“More than 2/3 of the people who quit their jobs do so because</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">of ineffective managers.”</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Did you know that one of the leading problems with</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">ineffective managers is their inability to make decisions?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Did you know that our teams inability to make decisions comes</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">directly from our inability to teach others how to make</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">decisions?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As a leaders are you building the leadership skills of those</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">you are responsible for?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As a business leaders are you developing the decision</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">making skills of your team?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As a parent are you developing the decision making skills</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">of your children.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">As a friend, are you developing the decision making skills</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">of your friends who lack them?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Did you know that the #1 Characteristic of a good leader</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">according to John Maxwell in his book, Talent Is Not Enough,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">“The ability of make things happen”.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">How are you doing?</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">I was very lucky in my own development because I had</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">the opportunity to work with people who knew what real</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">leadership was. Who were willing to let me fall flat on</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">my face. I was taught that in many cases you just have</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">to make a decision. If you make the wrong decision,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">then you can always make another one. If you can’t</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">make the first decision, you will never move forward</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">and neither will anyone you are responsible for.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">It was the day of my review. I had been a manage a</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">few months now and knew I was doing great.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Walked with that confidence into my boss’s office.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Sat down and learned that I had a problem. Even</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">though I thought I was good I was not. It seems</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">I was always looking for someone else to make my</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">decisions for me. Always looking for more</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">information, more time. Always wanting to push</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">off the responsibility for the outcome to someone</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">else. My manager taught me a very important</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">lesson that day that I never forgot. You as the</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">leader have to make decisions to move the ship</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">forward. You have to do it. So make a decision.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">If you are wrong, then make a decision to correct</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">the problem. But stop just sitting there. Make a</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">decision will you please.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Do you feel backed against a wall because you</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">have to make a decision and you just don’t feel</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">you have enough time. Deal with it. The time is</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">up. The decision has to be made, so make it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Do you feel backed against the well because you</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">just don’t have enough information. You want to</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">make the decision but if only you could have just</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">one more piece of information. Just one more.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">You cannot have any more information, Now</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">you have to make the decision based on what you</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">have and you have to make it now. So do it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Finally, the impact. You are now responsible</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">for so many people’s lives that you hesitate</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">on making the decision. You hesitate because</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">you know the decision will impact so many.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Still, you have to make it and you have to make</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">it now and you have to deal with it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">People respect strength in leaders who do what</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">has to be done. I did not say they always like it,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">just said they respect it. If you want to win a</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">popularity contest, try something other than</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">leadership. The inability to make timely</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">decisions is a weakness when it comes to leadership.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">You see, most times it is worse not make a</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">decision. Face it. You have to do it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Face the fact, you have to make the decision</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">quicker, with less information than you want</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">and you have to live and deal with the impact.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">That is all part of being a leader.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Are you ready to step up or are you just going to</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">stay where you are/</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Are you going to be a leader and guide the ship,</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">or just think about it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in"> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Real leaders make decisions and teach other how to do it.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">So start today.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">Make a decision will you.</p> <p style="margin-bottom: 0in">First decision is that you are going to start making</p> <p 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